Parents in most case want their children go on rosy
ways but sometimes rough ones teach them more than what are so easy. Even when
their children fail or have wrong choices, experiences from life they got will
make them stronger, more confident and more self-responsible and be easier to
accept than what parents told them. More importantly, the children get the need
of their families to overcome these failures. By this way, the children will
achieve mastery of making important decisions to take steady steps into hard
further life as their families don’t stand side by side with them anymore.
Many people use to guide their children in their
lives and sometimes even do not allow them to make their own decisions.
Nowadays most teenagers suffer because of the dictations from their older
relatives at home and wish to live independently as soon as possible. Some
teenagers often talk about their problems at home with their close friends and
most of these problems relate because of the misunderstanding between teenagers
and their parents. It is clear that parents do not always understand their
teenagers because the world is constantly changing, which results the changing
of character of people, their behavior and especially their interests in life.
However, some adults believe that teenagers have to
make their own decisions which will help them to be more responsible and
experienced persons in the future. Teenagers as well as adult people should
have chance to live with their own choice in their lives. Probably, teenagers
would make some mistakes with their own decisions but these mistakes will only
help them to be stronger and more responsible. Also, through mistakes teenagers
can understand the whole meaning of the life and will start to think properly
before making any decision. It will help them to grow progressively and to be
an individual successful person in the future. However, one cannot deny that
adults should see when their children need some help, because they have just
started to live in the real world, and try to help them.
In conclusion, support parents or adult relatives to
make the important decision in a teenager live. The teenager must participate
in the decision making process and make his or her desire heard. However,
adults are better equipped to decide on important topics like attending
college. teenagers should be allowed to make their own decisions in their
lives, because through their own experiences they will be more responsible, but
the role of adults is still very important for all teenagers and it will
continue to be in the future, as only parents and relatives can help teenagers
in difficult moments in their real world and support them anytime.
